Tolerating Non-Monogamy

We had been fighting about my non-monogamy. Because, although he lived with me and nightly shared my bed, he did not share my non-monogamous convictions. He tolerated the fact that non-monogamy was an important part of my life. He tolerated my right to autonomy and self-determination. But he did not celebrate it. We argued loudly […]

One Night Stands

I love one-night stands. I love the moments building up to it: the chase, the teasing, the games of eye contact, the electricity, the thrill of flirtation. I love the moments of decision when you reach that fork in the road, where either the night ends. You go home, rub one out to dispel the […]

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